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by Alderos on Mon Apr 27, 2009 9:59 am

I have noticed that often when I meet new people they hate me within 3 days. im not sure why. if you could plz post some ideas to help me or post your own problems and i will try to help you.
I have been going through alot recently so i think this would not just help me but help others. Thank you for your attention and remember. Please post.

by vorn on Mon Apr 27, 2009 12:29 pm

i'm sorry i'm too busy hating you to help you..... JK

i dont know why people would hate you unless you give them a reason to. are you moody? look at your actions when you are with others... do you do stupid or mean things to look "cool"? and if they hate you for (honestly) no good reason, then just don't mind it, you don't want to be friends with superficial people like them anyway.

at least thats how i look at it, hope it helps... and sorry if i sound cold, but i'm giving it to you straight

by **Flaw of Insanity** on Mon Apr 27, 2009 2:26 pm

It depends on where you are, how you act and who you are around when you act like that.
It's kinda like the Fable 2 expression system. Some people like good people, others like bad, others like different looks, others think curtain expressions are cool while others are not etc.

But if you are talking about people on AQW then you must have been going to Saf, I get hated in less than 3 minutes there. But it's just the the way THEY act sometimes. Thats why (If I met the requirements) if I was chosen to be an AQW mod I would say no. I'm sorry, I know if many noobs read this and flame me for it, they won't understand my thinking type.
I don't like the attention they make, also I just want to play the game, and not end up like a lot who are still lvl 1. Also I cannot get along with everybody, if someone is giving me a hard time enough, and this is rare, I can get off my face at them, they actually stop talking afterwards because every single thing they could say back to me I have already proven useless and come up with better things to say.

I think thats a reason why people hate me as well, words spreads quickly on the internet.

by **Winnie** on Mon Apr 27, 2009 6:59 pm

I Don't hate you.

I did note, however, that if you hang around in battleon there are a lot of jerks. Just hang with us in Yulgar-1, and you'll make lots of new friends.

*punches n00b in the face*

by Alderos on Tue Apr 28, 2009 4:05 am

Ok, to answer some questions i am talking about people in real life because i could care less most of the time if people are being mean to me on aqworlds.
I have noticed recently though for the past couple weeks i have been moody. i don't know how long i have been this way , or if this is the reason why. Maube they just don't like me because of the way i look. I talk in real life like i do on the forums and in aqworlds so either they hate me because 1. they think im a geek (i like the idea of being a geek so this doesn't matter) 2. they hate my appearence (i do bath daily so its most likely clothing) 3. they hate that i am in certain things ( don't laugh because yes, i am in The Boy Scouts of America and i think this keeps me and many other people out of trouble) 4. what i talk about( like i said i talk in life like i do on these forums) or 5. It may be the way i act.

I would like to thank all of you for giving me your opinion and if anyone else has any ideas plz feel free to post.
i also have another problem. i am being affected in school by the way people are treating me there. If i act angry on aqworlds plz don't mind me.

by vorn on Tue Apr 28, 2009 5:01 am

hmm... i don't think it's your problem, it's their inability to cope with those different than themselves... don't shape yourself to their image, just do what you do, as long as you aren't like sadistic or anything... that's what really counts. and i am sure you have other friends, so i say just don't worry about it.

by Alderos on Tue Apr 28, 2009 5:06 am

Thank you vorn you are right about me not needing to change. But you are wrong about the many friends thing. i don't have many friends in rl i have maybe 6 but they are what matter most. Once again , Thank you

by Alderos on Tue May 05, 2009 9:56 am

Well imy problems are mostly solved. my father went and talked to the principle. so now they dont really bother me anymore

by Guest on Tue May 05, 2009 9:58 am

Well, that's good, Alderos. That's why your parents are there, to help ya.

by rebeliecka on Mon May 11, 2009 12:33 am

Alderos, first of all I am so proud of you for posting your question here for help. I am quite sure others have felt the same way. I know I have. I encourage people to be the person you would want to be around. People are drawn to people who make them feel good genuinely. A book sugestion: How to Win Friends and Influence People..Dale Carnegie.

by Judge ZYellowFlash on Tue May 12, 2009 2:19 am

I know how you feel
it like hpw my best friend became corupt
with bad stuff
and hates me *wahh*

by **Winnie** on Tue May 12, 2009 3:28 am

MORE FRIENDLY ADVICE!

You have 402 friends rihere. That's why having a clan to back you up is so cool.

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